Sunday, October 07, 2007

No Walk -- No Wonder

The meek will he teach his way. - God

I returned, and saw under the sun, that the race is not to the swift, nor the battle to the strong, neither yet bread to the wise, nor yet riches to men of understanding, nor yet favour to men of skill.--A man's heart deviseth his way: but the LORD directeth his steps. - God

A man in a genuine, living relationship with Jesus where there is daily communion over God's Word will live an extraordinary life. But, the first temptation to live a zero life is to think that only natural gifts of strength, thought and wisdom are needed for today. Pride will drain the blood from life and leave an empty shell. With Jesus Words, Spirit and blessing, life not only is given meaning but life will take us unexpected and wonderful places. Enoch walked with God and, one day, walked straight into heaven. A daily walk with God will lead to an incredible life. No walk -- No wonder.

"Without me, you can do nothing." - Jesus

"Seek first the Kingdom of God and His rightousness and all these things will be added to you." - Jesus

Ps 25
Eccl 9
Prov 16
John 15
Matt 6

Wednesday, October 03, 2007

Until the Cart Flips Over

If you seek her as silver, and search for her as for hidden treasures; then shall you… (Proverbs 2:4)

The popular culture has become the wisdom of the masses. No more digging for diamonds or rubies is required because fountains of wisdom bubble forth in high definition, sit in control of our schools, dispense our health, and steer the government. Thinking, questioning and searching is now the domain of eccentrics, non-conformists and conspiracy believers. Faith, independent thinking and personal responsibility are no longer required or expected. Relax in the back seat and let the experts drive. Rest in peace. If there is damage to health, finances, family or faith; it will be the driver’s fault.

Yet, wisdom still cries out, saying, “How long, you simple ones, will you love simplicity? And the scorners delight in their scorning, and fools hate knowledge?” Jesus promised a solid foundation and strong house to those who DO what He commanded. Watch out! Personal responsibility is rearing its head. Sadly, there are few who know what Jesus commanded and even fewer who take action to apply that truth to modern life. The road of life has many forks that lead to disaster but He who is the Way, the Truth and the Life shows the way to the place He has prepared. The fountains of worldly wisdom encourage ignorance, entertainment and conformity as the way to peace, joy and acceptance. Ignorance is truly bliss – until the cart flips over in the ditch.

"Ask, and it will be given to you; seek, and you will find; knock, and it will be opened to you.” (Matthew 7:7)

Happy is the man that finds wisdom, and the man that gets understanding. She is more precious than rubies: and all the things you can desire are not to be compared unto her. (Proverbs 3:13,15)

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Monday, September 24, 2007

Wimpy Sloth or Courageous Warrior

How long will you lie there, O sluggard?
When will you arise from your sleep?
A little sleep, a little slumber,
a little folding of the hands to rest,
and poverty will come upon you like a robber,
and want like an armed man. Proverbs (6:9-11)

This verse came to mind this morning as I tried to wake up and get out of bed early enough to have time for Bible reading and prayer. It is often a struggle for me to break free from the sheets. Sadly, there are many who lose their spiritual vision, strength and fruit before they ever get out of bed. Spiritual poverty comes like a robber and steals the potential fruit of individuals, families and congregations. Jesus taught that we should pray for daily bread and He also said that we do not live by bread alone but by every word that comes from God's mouth. How many of us are sleeping through the meal that God has for us? I know I've missed too many of His meals.

Spiritual growth and health does not just happen. It requires growing in our relationship to Jesus. We must take time out of our daily concerns to sit at His feet and listen. It is difficult to get below the surface to truly hear and understand our friend, child or spouse. It is even more difficult if our attention is simultaneously drawn to a TV or if our ears are being bombarded by loud music. Also, if we are too busy to stop and listen to our child, we will not be able to understand his real message. In the same way, to hear Jesus, we must get away from busy-ness, noise and distractions for a little while and focus on His Word, His character and His call.

The slothful man says, "There is a lion outside, I shall be slain in the streets." (Proverbs 22)

He is calling us to more than earning a living, maintaining our yard, going to parties and sinking into sleep. But, I and many others are held back by fear. The verse above warns us that it may be laziness more than fear. Our supposed fears may be the excuses of our weak flesh wanting to take it easy. I personally know that it is easier to sink back and watch a football game than to go out and serve where God seems to be leading; especially when God's calling seems a little bit scary or challenging.

Our spiritual battle starts the moment we wake up. Let's seek God's grace to be courageous warriors rather than wimpy sloths.

Saturday, August 18, 2007

A Tremendous Opportunity

House Churches and Richardson East


Since our goal is to build God’s Kingdom as effectively as possible then we must not overlook the dynamic power of house churches. Look at two growth curves. One curve is the “normal” growth of conventional churches. This curve shows growth that quickly reaches a plateau where it may remain for decades. The other curve shows the exponential growth of the early Church which, during its first three centuries, was forced by persecution to meet in house churches. And, it also shows the exponential growth of the church in China in the last 60 years. If we look around the world today, we see the fastest growth occurring where the Church is meeting in networks of house churches. China, India, Indonesia and many parts of Africa are experiencing a dramatic increase in the number churches and a large percentage are essentially house churches.

When we speak of growth, how do we define success? A house church does not see the growth of their group as success. Rather, success is defined not in terms of a single group or congregation but in the growth of the movement within the community, state or nation. A house church grows until it reaches a certain critical mass. This may the size at which it can not maintain secrecy, or when it outgrows the house or it may be when it can no longer have quality relationships within the group. When that size is reached, the group simply divides into two groups and each group continues to grow and divide. The groups are dividing but the movement is multiplying.

As an example, assume a house church that divides when it reaches a size of 12 people. Let’s further assume that each house church either reaches the size of 12 each year or dies out after five years. For our example, assume that 25% of the house churches disappear after five years. Based on this, the movement will have 144 people involved after five years. But, after ten years, the number of people involved will be almost 3500. And, incredibly, after twenty years almost 2 million people will be actively involved. The rate of growth is exponential and a community, an entire nation or even the whole world can be dramatically changed in 30 years or in a single generation. These numbers may seem unrealistic. But, they have been exceeded in some parts of today’s world. For instance, Mozambique has grown from almost no Christians to over 5000 house churches in about 10 years.

Based on this, why don’t we see house churches in almost every neighborhood? One reason is that we have a natural tendency to want to have big groups with their associated pocketbooks and political influence. The Christian Church was forced underground and into house churches for the first 300 years of its existence. During that time it spread over the entire known world and became a major political influence. As it emerged into the public eye, it began to build large buildings, gather in large groups and tended to lose the vitality of Christian community that existed in small, home and family based groups.

Ironically, attempts to wipe out or suppress the Christian Church actually seem to help it grow. On one hand, lukewarm Christians will be driven away by the persecution. But, on the other hand, the remaining Christians will be more zealous and genuine. At the same time, the persecuted Church will tend toward house church dynamics which will cause it to spread more effectively.

Recent surveys reveal that house churches are beginning to spread rapidly in the United States. A survey done by Barna showed that 9% of the adults in the U.S. attend a house church meeting during any single week. We personally know several families involved in house churches. Since our government is not persecuting the Church, why is there an interest in them?

One factor may be a continuing splintering of the denominations. But, a more significant factor seems to be a genuine desire to have a sincere and meaningful expression of faith. Many people seem to be frustrated with conventional churches. The leadership of these churches has sometimes caused division by adopting heretical ideas, becoming politically correct or by denying basic Christian beliefs. In addition, there are some people who are not satisfied with an environment where they often feel more like spectators than participants. Unfortunately, many people find church involvement to be basically irrelevant to their lives.

Many conventional churches are either losing members or are attracting them from other congregations. George Barna in his book, "Revolution", has stated that trends show, in general, that conventional churches will lose a large percentage (50%) of their audience in the next 15-20 years. One reason for this is that it much easier for a person to walk away from the conventional church than to enter into that church’s culture. It is difficult for an un-churched person to walk through the doors of a conventional church and feel comfortable with the culture of the congregation. Even people who attend church all the time can have a problem moving into the culture of a different congregation. For example, Ouida and I accepted a neighbor’s invitation to attend a revival meeting at a small church near where we live. We were greeted at the door by an official greeter but then, even though we were several minutes early, no one spoke to us again until the end of the service. Many of the people knew each other and exchanged jibes and inside jokes. Activities occurred that looked familiar but we weren’t totally sure what people were doing. For instance, many people responded to the invitation to come forward for prayer and they knelt at the front and others joined them. But, there was no comment, explanation or testimony about what people were thinking, feeling, or doing. Naturally, the environment left us feeling a little like isolated aliens.

To better understand the house church movement, Ouida and I attended a Texas House Church conference. This conference functioned similar to a large house church. In fact, it met in a private home. There were 40-50 people at the conference. What we found was enthusiasm for serving Christ, desire for personal involvement in worship, lots of opinion, and vision for growth of networks of house churches. There also seemed to be some who felt antagonism toward conventional churches. The worship times were primitive but rich. The talks were very interactive. Interestingly, we quickly felt much more “at home” at this conference than we ever felt at the revival meeting.

House churches can appeal to the un-churched because they are more like “just getting together” with some neighbors. Many house churches share a meal together which gives an increased sense of hospitality. These churches allow and even expect everyone to participate. The Scripture verses that anticipate everyone coming with a psalm, doctrine, or revelation take on more meaning in a house church where everyone can share what God is doing in their life. Members quickly develop close relationships and use their funds to help one another and to help their neighbors. There is often more of a sense of the dynamic of Christian community than can be easily found in a conventional church. These house churches grow by converting unbelievers or by gaining members who are looking for something more than they find in conventional churches. One example is one of our neighbors. They were heavily involved in a small local church but, for various reasons, have now withdrawn from that church. They are very interested in the idea of a house church because they want closer relationships with more daily interaction. You probably have some neighbors who feel the same way.

What holds back the growth of house churches? One serious constraint can be lack of effective leadership. Leadership in conventional churches comes from formal training facilities such as Christian universities, seminaries and Bible schools. Leadership in house churches can come from seminaries. But, frequently, it develops by “osmosis”. That is, by participation, mentoring and by occasional formal training experiences. Leadership growth in conventional churches is limited by the capacity of the formal training facilities. But, leadership growth in house churches can potentially be exponential if it is given sufficient attention. Another constraint can be the misguided effort to make a house church into a miniature conventional church with a preacher, song leader and church officers. Vital, growing house churches are based on the guidance and power of the God's Spirit acting and speaking through the transformed lives of the participants.

Many churches have small groups or cell churches. But, often, these groups do not multiply like house churches. One reason can be that they are not fully functional as a church and have perception that “real” church is in the auditorium of the big building. Another reason can be because they must maintain a relationship and identify with a central church body. This may mean that the groups can not totally function as an independent church in that some elements of interaction are “off limits”. Communion, for example, might be reserved for the “official” gathering of the church. The group may have to have leadership appointed or approved by the central organization. This limit on leadership may result in the groups being starved for leadership and thus limiting their division into new groups. Group members may also be expected to contribute to the central organization. Potential members may not have a loyalty to the central church body and may not want to identify with or donate to the programs of that body.

An opportunity lies before us, a rich harvest. But, experience shows and trends indicate that the harvest is not going to happen at the conventional church building. If we want to effectively build God’s Kingdom, we will need to invite our neighbors into our homes for “church”. The church at Richardson East could and should be the seedbed or catalyst for the formation of house church networks that would eventually include hundreds and thousands of house churches. If we focus on how to nurture and grow neighborhood house churches of Jesus’ disciples, in 10-20 years we can see impact to our community and neighborhoods in ways that are unimaginable now.

Rather than dissolving the congregation into house churches, we should encourage the salt to get out of the salt shaker and into their neighborhoods and start a neighborhood church. The goal should be a small but dynamic church that would be worshiping together, daily interacting and serving the hurting and needy in their own neighborhood. We should encourage each member to be a missionary building God’s Kingdom in their own village, block or apartment complex.

We are trying to build God’s Kingdom in Africa by encouraging the planting of churches. In the same way, we can plant and grow churches in the harvest of our own neighborhoods. Our community could be dramatically changed in 20-30 years if house churches are encouraged and can get traction in each of our neighborhoods. In fact, through the power of God’s Spirit, millions of people could be brought into God’s Kingdom. The Church of Christ in Richardson East would no longer be a building or a loosely associated group of hundreds of members. It would be the Church of Christ manifest in thousands of churches working together, each in their own neighborhood, to reveal the love of Christ in the DFW area.

Summary

  • What is our vision for growth? How many will we be impacting in ten years? Twenty years?

  • How do we define growth and success? Is it growth of a particular group, a congregation, or is it the growth of a movement?

  • Barna (“Revolution”) sees a significant trend toward alternative forms of church, especially house churches. He predicts an almost 50% decline in the “market share” of conventional churches over the next 15-20 years.
    • How do we anticipate, prepare for, and respond to this?

  • What factors are contributing to this shift?
    1. Splintering of denominations
    2. Rejection of the irrelevant
    3. Seeking more participation
    4. Desire for more meaningful relationships
    5. Cultural barriers
    6. Search for authentic spiritual experiences
    7. ??

  • What factors hinder house church growth?
    1. Lack of genuine disciples of Christ with transformed lives
    2. Leadership
    3. Lack of experience
    4. Understanding the hazards

  • How are house churches different than small groups?

o Spiritual zeal, energy – enthusiasm

o Spiritual power touching neighbors

o Frequency of interaction

o Growth – evangelism

o Outward focus versus inward focus

o Fully functioning church versus special interest group

o Leadership not defined or controlled by a central church body

o Funds are collected and controlled by the house church

  • What can WE do (by God’s grace)?

o More than we can imagine

o See some ideas below

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Ideas?

  • Develop a vision for spreading God’s Kingdom in our neighborhoods.
  • Develop a vision for neighborhood churches.
  • Contact our neighbors.
  • Start some house churches, grow, divide, multiply.
  • Learn what works and what doesn’t -- get experience.
  • Seek out and send out neighborhood church leaders.
  • Implement classes and provide resources to develop, mature and support neighborhood church leaders.
  • Provide gathering place for house church networks
  • Your ideas?

References:

Thursday, August 02, 2007

Pain Redeeming Power

Forasmuch then as Christ hath suffered for us in the flesh, arm yourselves likewise with the same mind: for he that hath suffered in the flesh hath ceased from sin; that he no longer should live the rest of [his] time in the flesh to the lusts of men, but to the will of God.

We naturally want to avoid pain and suffering. Yet Jesus warned us that in this world we would have trouble. Pain, suffering and sorrow are sometimes going to be a natural part of our lives. The temptation is to go extremes to escape the pain. So, we may draw back from a relationship because we fear or can not endure the emotional pain that our spouse or potential spouse can cause. I know a man who told me that he and his wife decided to not have children because he thought that he would be a bad parent and, as a result, would have problem children. When I love someone then I put myself in their power and they can hurt me. That pain can come from their words, actions or attitudes. But, it can also come from losing them or from sharing in their pain.

When pain comes or when suffering is seen in the distance, we have a choice. Often, the first thought is to reject it and try to escape it. Alternatively, we can confront the situation and keep bringing the hurt to Jesus in faith that He is redeeming it. Emotional wounds can be the most difficult to heal. One reason is that we often keep it hidden and hardly admit it to ourselves. Some of us never get out into the opportunities, adventures and thrills of life because we're afraid of the pain of failure. Many of us are afraid of rejection and draw back from telling the Good News of Jesus to those who are wandering through life, sliding toward a dark abyss.

God is in the business of redeeming pain. Let's stop running away from pain, complaining about how we've been hurt, or looking for the magic potion from our doctor. Instead, let's genuinely come into Jesus' presence with our suffering, tell Him how we feel, ask Him to redeem it and then determine, through Jesus, to do whatever we should be doing in His eyes. This may mean being cheerful when we hurt, patient while we wait, attempting reconciliation, or risking falling in love. It may mean allowing someone to crucify us. Only by His strength can we suffer with the same attitude (or mind) as Christ. But, His power really is there for us. Jesus said we would inevitably have tribulation and trouble in this world but He also said to be of good cheer because His pain redeeming power is available to us.

In the world you shall have tribulation, but be of good cheer; I have overcome the world. (Jn 16:33)

Thursday, July 19, 2007

Tested by Praise

For the Mighty One has done great things for me -- holy is his name.

Recently, I attended a short team meeting at my office. When I walked into the conference room, I saw that we were going to have cake and a celebration of some kind. Then I saw that the cake was decorated with my name on it. Since I was about to have a birthday, I thought maybe someone at work at gotten wind of it. But, it turned out to be recognition for some work related awards. In many ways, I felt like I was just doing my job where many times I find myself asking God for guidance, right attitudes, and inspiration.

Many of us have experienced promotions, awards or recognition. There is a proverb that says "As gold is tested in the crucible, so are the hearts of men tested by praise." These can be occasions that become temptations to believe that we actually are wonderful, wise or strong. Yet, we get health, talents, and inspiration from our Maker and from the Holy Spirit. We also get the benefits of support and training from our family. And, we can accomplish very little without the team work of many others.

Our primary focus must be to find ways to build God's Kingdom and to spread the influence of His Spirit wherever we can. This means being good workers, inspiring leaders and examples of His presence everywhere. It means praying for Him to enter into all aspects of our lives including our family relationships, work activities and the time we spent chit-chatting with friends, co-workers and neighbors.

Now to him who is able to do immeasurably more than all we ask or imagine, according to his power that is at work within us, to him be glory. (Eph 3:20)

Friday, June 29, 2007

Dig out the flashlight

Your word is a lamp unto my feet, and a light unto my path. (Ps 119:105)

We were wanting to dig some luggage out of the attic last night. But, we couldn't see it in the darkness. Instead of fumbling around and trying to feel our way, we turned on a flashlight. What a difference it made!

I'm frequently tempted to think I don't have time for reading, meditating and prayer. But, in reality, I will waste a huge amount of life if I am wondering in darkness.

If the above verse is true, how much light is in your life today? Let's dig out the flashlight.

Thursday, June 28, 2007

It Colors Every Choice

"but as for me and my house, we will serve the Lord." Joshua 24:15

God gives each of us gifts, talents, time and choices. Our choices determine what happens to the gifts, talents, and time. There is one fundamental choice that will drive and color all the others. Will I serve myself, do what I feel like, and seek to expand my self image or will I serve the Lord, doing what I may not always feel like and expanding His image? Let us forget our past poor choices and reach for the high calling of living in and for Christ. Life in Christ is only possible if Christ is living in us. He will live in us if we genuinely repent of serving self and trust Jesus for direction, purpose and fulfillment.

This book may be of interest to you. If you've already read it let me know what you think of it.

=== from Paul Byerly ====
One of you sent me a link to a story about John Gottman, author of The Seven Principles for Making Marriage Work: A Practical Guide from the Country's Foremost Relationship Expert . Dr. Gottman is a mathematician who has found ways to apply math to couples and very accurately predict who will stay married and who will not, or more specifically to tell with better than 90% accuracy what is going to happen to a relationship over the next three years. By looking at what is done by couples cope well versus those who do not, Gottman has found ways of significantly helping 75% of couples in very short periods of time.


A few interesting tid-bits from the article:

  • 67% of couples have a significant decrease in relationship happiness in the first 3 years following the birth of their first child.
  • 96% of the time the way a conflict goes for the first 3 minutes determines how it goes for the rest of the discussion.
  • 69% of the time couples are talking about the same issues year after year - and these are usually based on basic things like personality differences.
  • Sharing dreams had a huge positive impact on couples.
  • Couples who have no connection, but put on a good marriage show, tend to divorce 16-22 years after they wed.
  • Similar situations tend to cause women fear and men anger.
I've not read Gottman's book, but it's on it's way from Amazon!
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Wednesday, June 06, 2007

Only On Father's Day

Honor your father and your mother, that your days may be long upon the land which the Lord your God has given you. (Exodus 20)

I recently spoke to a man who had a portrait of his grandfather in his office. When I asked about it, he said that his grandfather was the greatest man that ever lived. Then he paused and said, "except for One." This man honored his grandfather in his heart and in his words. His honor was obviously sincere.

This commandment to honor is repeated many times in the Bible. And, this is the season that we are encouraged by business to show honor by finding things to buy for our parents. Yet, like the rest of the Ten Commandments, this commandment can be genuinely obeyed only when our actions and words are a sincere manifestation of our internal thoughts and attitudes. A person who speaks to his mother only at Christmas and Mother's day obviously has a relationship problem and does not genuinely love and honor her.

The quality of our honor and respect for our parents is not manifest in occasional gifts but in the positive energy of our relationship. If we find their presence tiresome, their ideas boring and generally have more important things to do than to talk to them, then our relationship will manifest our attitudes with infrequent visits and conversation. Also, if we speak of them to others with respect and honor, when they are not around, it demonstrates that our words come from our heart rather than just our lips.

" A son honors his father, and a servant his master Then if I am a father, where is My honor? And if I am a master, where is My respect?' says the LORD of hosts to you, .. Malachi 1

In the same way, the quality of our honor and love for God is shown in the energy of our relationship with Him. Do we actually desire to hear His words and understand His ideas? Or, do we find time listening and talking to Him to be boring, tiresome and less important than reading the news or watching our favorite sports entertainment? Do we honor Him with purified hearts or do we enter into "worship" or "communion" with hidden sins. Do we bring hatred and resentment to the table? Maybe we bring hatred toward a relative, spouse, ex-spouse, or neighbor? If we bring resentment and hatred to worship, then we clearly haven't honored God's desire and command to do all we can to be reconciled.

In some of the other commandments, God makes it clear that He desires us to honor and respect Him. In Jesus, God has made it very clear the extremes that He will go to in order to be reconciled with us. Yet, the choice of entering into a genuine relationship with Him depends on us changing our minds about sin and about our priorities. It has been estimated that, in the United States, at least 80% of those who call themselves Christian are actually false converts. They believe in Jesus but they have not truly repented of their wrong desires, their favorites sins and especially of being boss of their own lives. Let's test ourselves. Do I really want God's will and direction in my life? If so, when was the last time I read the Bible to see how it applied to my life? Was it today or only on Sunday, Christmas, Easter, or Father's Day?

Tuesday, June 05, 2007

Loving Solutions

This book sounds like one that could be very helpful and is one that I will be reading soon. I suspect each of us sometimes falls into the category of being a difficult spouse (I know I am sometimes a challenge to live with) or having a difficult spouse. Even if we have a wonderful marriage and there are no problems between us and our spouse, there will be friends and relatives that we could possibly help with this information. Have any of you read it? If so, please comment on the book here.

A book recommendation
: Loving Solutions - by Gary Chapman (author of The Five Love Languages )

The book for those married to difficult or unresponsive spouses, Loving Solutions shares practical insight into dealing with the irresponsible, workaholic, controlling, uncommunicative, verbally abusive, physically abusive, sexually abused, unfaithful, alcoholic, drug abusing, or depressed spouse. At best it will help you do things that will lead to a positive change, at worst it will help you deal with the situation in a way that reduces your frustration.