Established or Ruined

“But let your communication be, Yea, yea; Nay, nay: for whatsoever is more than these cometh of evil” (Matthew 5:37).

When Ouida and I visited China, we found that we were often like helpless babes totally dependent on some stranger. Several times, we were taken advantage of. These losses were the cost of our education. But, there were also many times when we received more help than we expected.

Jason, the bellboy at one hotel, could speak a little English. When we arrived, he offered his help whenever we needed it. It was Jason that helped us make connections with the family of Li QuanLi, our friend from church. Jason also helped us with directions when we decided to walk a few blocks to a restaurant. But, Jason kept refusing my attempts to give him tips.

In contrast, there was the rickshaw driver who could speak a little English. He convinced us that he could get us back to our hotel. But, once he had us in his control, he took us on a journey of his own choosing. Finally, his English deserted him and he indicated in sign language that he was too tired and it was too far to the hotel. Yet, he made it clear that he should be paid. So, we ended up paying him to get loose from him.

Many people are dependent on us. Our employers, children, parents, and friends depend on each of us to keep our word and to uphold our responsibility. We make agreements with our company, vows in our marriage, and casual promises to those around us. Our good name is established or ruined by our dependability in keeping our word.

Project:

* Let's consider what we sing to God and say in our Cards (Mother's Day, Birthday, ..)
* Let’s ask, “Am I keeping my word to love for better or worse, to lay down my life for those dependent on me, and to give my best effort to earn every dollar,?”
* Let’s pray that we will do what we promise whether it is explicitly stated or just implied.

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